Having sex is almost as natural as breathing, and all animals participate. While we are on the top of the food chain and possess high intelligence, some men are clueless in the bedroom. A guy doesn’t need much to get them horney and less to climax, but for a woman, time and attention must be given in the right sequence for success.
Have you noticed that your wife isn’t interested in sex? It could be that she has a lower sex drive than you, but more often than not, you cannot give her what she desires to the fullest.
Not sure how to take your game to a new level? This is how to satisfy your wife.
1. Take Care of Your Own Body
Before doing tongue gymnastics and sexual origami, consider getting your house in order first. This starts with maintaining a healthy body. You may find an overweight partner less desirable but guess what, so does your wife. Work on creating a healthy body so you are more attractive; the bonus is you will increase stamina too.
Before trying to initiate sex, have a shower and clean up. Wait until your wife has showered, too or better yet, run her a bath and pamper her as she is soothed in hot water for a while. When a woman feels clean and fresh and sees you as the same, she will be more open to wilder times between the sheets.
2. Sex Toys
It is fairly easy for a man to reach orgasm, but for a woman, you must put in the time and technique and hit the right spots for her to get there. Fortunately, there are sex toys that can come to the rescue.
There are several adult sex toys you can bring into the bedroom, and it will increase her satisfaction. Start with a clitoral vibrator and let her hold it. She will be able to position it right where it needs to be. Remember, after orgasm, she is just starting, so it serves as a great amuse-bouche to start your sexual meal.
Once you are both comfortable with that toy, talk about the other ones you can bring. These include:
Dildos & Vibrators
You can use these on her to give pleasure.
Anal Toys
If you or she enjoy anal stimulation, there are several kinds of anal toys to choose from.
Male Masturbators
This is for you, but she can either hold it or watch you and get turned on.
Sex Furniture
This allows for better sexual positions and aids in comfort during intercourse.
You can also use toys simultaneously for an erotic experience. Another benefit of a sex toy for her is that while you are in the refractory period, she can still enjoy penetration.
Satisfying a woman isn’t a mystery cloaked in darkness, only known by the greatest lovers throughout history. You can satisfy your wife using these techniques and tips, so start today and give your wife as much pleasure as possible. She deserves it.
3. Give Her Non-Sexual Attention
Tv, movies and especially porn depict sex as an automatic compulsion that leads to simultaneous orgasms and full-on pleasure, but it doesn’t work like that. To satisfy your wife, start with loving gestures and non-sexual touching. This can be as simple as holding hands when you walk down the street or a long hug when she walks by.
A woman’s sexual satisfaction is as much in mind and the heart as it is between the legs and the more you stroke those flames, the better it will be for her. Don’t separate emotion from the sexual act because her greatest enjoyment will be a mix of both.
4. Explore Her Whole Body
While your instinct tells you to head straight for the vulva, a woman’s entire body can be an erogenous zone with a quick visit to the breasts. There are nerve endings all over the body, so it is up to you to work your way around to find the hot spots.
This is not only like a treasure hunt that will indicate where she likes to be touched, kissed and licked, but it also spreads the enjoyment and builds up her excitement as you inch towards giving her a huge sexual release.
5. Communicate
Satisfying a woman in all areas of your relationship translates to great enjoyment in the bedroom. Sometimes a man doesn’t even realize he is not filling his wife’s needs because he hasn’t communicated properly and learned what she is thinking.
Concerning sex, we all have our likes and dislikes, along with fetishes, desires and intimate curiosities. If you want to satisfy your wife, ask her what she likes sexually. This will help direct you to exactly where she wants to be touched, and with her guidance, you can make the sexual session more intense. You also need to communicate, too, though.
Tell her what you love about her body and what you would like to try. You may discover that your desires match hers, and you both were afraid to open up. Communication during sex takes it to the next level of pleasure.